More often than not, we get mad at things that do not really matter. You know, getting stepped on, not beating your opponent in something, maybe performing below average or whatever makes you upset .
At this point in my life is when I am learning “patience”, you know understanding what it actually means to wait. Mehn! I can’t believe it,I am one impatient soul. So much happening at once . I was watching a video on YouTube the other day, I never realised how much my impatience was toxic. Until it hit me, that’s why our fingerprints are different. This is to mean that things won’t happen the same time for everyone of us.
You know this pressure of my age mates are doing so well and I have no a thing to show for it. It’s crazy. I mean the pressure to be where your age mates are at or do something way better than what they are doing. Slow down, I understand this pressure gets crazy when you are thirty and so on. (Haha I don’t want to grow old) My oh my, the impatience? The rush? The petrifying encounters? The crazy ass sleepless nights! But hey! You don’t need to compare yourself with anyone. That is why there’s only one of you.
My point is: Just know you are exactly where God wants you to be. I have said this before no? YES it means exactly that. No rush, do not be petrified by the situation you are in. It will get brighter. I know that this is pressing, but as you read this, be encouraged that your time is coming. Might take ages, but the tunnel is not always dark. When you reach the end there’s always a Light that is bright for days .
These encounters, rather this stage is serendipitous. It is amazing how throughout this journey you will learn how to be humble, how to actually be patient and stay patient. How you will do things way out of what you went to college for. Haha I seat back and look at that campus life and wish I was wiser. (I was in my teen years, can I justify with that?haha )You will also learn to be gutsy. You will learn to be focused towards a goal, learn how to be happy, you will learn practising pro activity, You may also learn that gabbing is the worst thing that has ever or will ever happen to you.
Don’t worry, be happy!